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The Lounge => General => Topic started by: Yourtourguidefortoday on 2024-04-14 01:41:53

Title: I'm Nervous
Post by: Yourtourguidefortoday on 2024-04-14 01:41:53

I known Sarahgirl1998 for a couple years now.

I heard about her triggers as well, mainly about the three lettered Y word.

These are innocent words people use all the time, but Sara? She... Well.. Freaks out when she comes across them.

I witnessed an episode she had on her deviantart page.

I'm not telling which page where she did, but she threatened to block someone because they put the word in it, and she didn't stop before they got rid of it.

This is why I'm afraid to talk to her again because my mouth could find the words that make her upset and could happen to me too.

I should tell her to ignore the words that piss her off the most,

But it could happen again :(

Title: Re: I'm Nervous
Post by: electricferret on 2024-04-14 09:06:55

In my experience there is no point telling people not to overreact.
Do your best not to offend anyone, hope they accept you are doing your best. If you can't communicate effectively, whatever the reason then its time to move on. Life is too short.

Title: Re: I'm Nervous
Post by: Rainberry on 2024-04-14 16:34:41

I am not even aware of what is going on.  She not like the word, "yes?"

Title: Re: I'm Nervous
Post by: RainySunshine on 2024-04-14 16:37:26

Don't be nervous.

See how that didn't work?

Just like telling someone not to overreact.  It doesn't work.

But seriously, you shouldn't be nervous over something so meaningless, just as she shouldn't get so upset over something so equally as meaningless. She needs to learn.

Title: Re: I'm Nervous
Post by: Yourtourguidefortoday on 2024-04-14 22:20:25

Quote from: Rainberry on 2024-04-14 16:34:41

I am not even aware of what is going on.  She not like the word, "yes?"

No, it's the one with the two Y's with a A in the middle.

Title: Re: I'm Nervous
Post by: Anyponedrawn on 2024-04-15 00:00:17

Sorry she is having a fit over that.  She is a member here.  I don't know much about her and she has always been nice and really enjoys Happy Tree Friends.  That is my knowledge of her.  I hope it works out.

Title: Re: I'm Nervous
Post by: 1234 on 2024-04-15 04:38:39

We're well aware of her unusual dislike for cheering. She's thrown a couple of tantrums over that on this forum.

Title: Re: I'm Nervous
Post by: Bumble on 2024-04-15 12:14:47

I wouldn't worry about it.

Title: Re: I'm Nervous
Post by: Sniffles on 2024-04-15 12:18:34

She's going to have to learn the world will do things she doesn't like.  I realize she is on the spectrum, but still.  She has to learn.

As harsh as this sounds, and others have said this, don't worry about.  She will get over it and have tantrums in the future as well.