They are. Guys are great. Sure some are jerks but they're not the majority. I've seen so many people say that men are all basically frat boys and are all into the "rapey of girl and drinking a lot" and I'm like. What.
Most guys I know aren't into raping women. Most seem pretty shy at trying to find a girlfriend and really respect the woman they try to date, to the point of a fault where the women then goes and finds some jerk hat...
But yeah, there are male jerks just like there are women jerks