PSF Chat

[Wolfwood]

Well until he can learn to control it, and be mature with us, I say we don't need it.

You can be a nice guy, but you can also be bad for everyone. 

[Anyponedrawn]

Yeah, yeah.  Sometimes you just can't control mental problems.  That is why they have a mental disability.  You can meet people with these problems, and they seem completely fine and normal until one day you eventually find out why they have a disability.  It's not their fault, and they can't control it easily.  I give people chances... even if it is like chance five.  That is my blessing, and my curse. 

[Death Blossom]

Oh I know that. I was pretty stern with him whenever he started getting erratic with me, instead of enabling. But eventually I guess I just pissed him off enough. It's understandable. He asked for something and I wasn't delivering. I mean, I would be annoyed too. But the way he acted on it was incorrect. He just seems to be an extreme person.

Like I said, seems paranoid. Afraid that the people he makes friends with hate him. It's something I suffer as well in real life. And it's scary. And maybe that's why I'm like, more willing to forgive him? I don't know. But he's always been very very picky with commissions. I think he wants to get his money's worth because he's short on it, but again, he goes about it the wrong way.

[Wolfwood]

I can't stop them from doing what they want and joining, but if crap happens, it needs to be capped and dealt with quickly.  That kind of crap spreads. 

[Death Blossom]

Well off course. But by acting hostile to him the second he arrives make it doomed from the start. Because we confirm his fears. That we don't trust him and expect him to cause drama. Of course if he does he will be dealt with accordingly, but by having that attitude as soon as he steps in just doesn't really make for a friendly greeting.

[Wolfwood]

Like I said, seems paranoid. Afraid that the people he makes friends with hate him. It's something I suffer as well in real life. And it's scary. And maybe that's why I'm like, more willing to forgive him? I don't know. But he's always been very very picky with commissions. I think he wants to get his money's worth because he's short on it, but again, he goes about it the wrong way.

But you don't come off as a dick.  You don't freak out about things and start name calling people here. 

But yeah, he should be afraid of the friends he has, because they probably will hate him if he treats them poorly and he will loose them.  He has an attitude problem and how to treat people properly.

I understand wanting his money's worth on commissions, but if he is short on cash, maybe he shouldn't spend it on commissions. 

[Anyponedrawn]

Talking about all this in the open doesn't help either...

Again, I am totally cool with him coming if he so chooses.  As a matter of fact I welcome it, and hope to hear about what he has been up too and look forward to seeing how he has progressed in his drawings and life.  But at the same time, if things get bad, it needs to be dealt with sternly, but with some restraint maybe?  Explain to him what he did wrong and tell him why it is wrong.  Give him a handful of chances, and he continues to break them, then... well..... you know what happens. 

[Smiles2us]

Anyone can join as long as they follow site rules and protocol. 

[Death Blossom]

I don't come off as a dick? Seriously? I'm such an asshole here sometimes. And well, in real life I do. In my head. I have self control because I know if I lash out I'll lose my friends or cause them to actually hate me. If they didn't already.

He shouldn't be afraid of the friends he has. That's horrible. No one should be afraid of their friends. But he should be wary. Not everyone is as patient as MS. Some people don't give chances. You mess up you mess up. He needs to learn self control. When he has these thoughts and anger, he shouldn't lash out at the ones he sees as friends. He should find another way to release his anger. Like exercise. Or brood over pasta, pizza and a sandwich... Like me...

That's my thought, but hey maybe he feels the price is worth the quality and gets disappointed when it's not like he wanted. Afterall, commissions are being payed for and should come out like you asked for. And most comissioners are nice and will fix something if you're nice about it. But they definitely won't be willing if you come at them screaming and cursing their name.

[Death Blossom]

And yeah, don't worry guys. If he does cause trouble, I'm sure Darrin Smiles or I, if I'm allowed, can talk to him and sternly give him warnings and such.

[Wolfwood]

I don't come off as a dick? Seriously? I'm such an asshole here sometimes. And well, in real life I do. In my head. I have self control because I know if I lash out I'll lose my friends or cause them to actually hate me. If they didn't already.

Well today you came off as short earlier in the morning.   Ha ha!  I'm a dick, I know that.  But I can be a nice dick.

Don't worry LP, I doubt people hate you.  Your pretty hard to hate for the long term.  I'm one of those people you can hate for the long term, but then again, I don't care if people hate me.  But friends I make, I keep them close and support them. 

[Anyponedrawn]

I won't go into detail about what he did with me in commissions and even requests.  Pestering non stop every few hours is not the motivation artists, or anyone for that matter, wants.   

[RainySunshine]

Look at all of you talking.  Goodness.  Yeah I did work for them before.  They weren't happy with it no matter what I did.  They stormed off mad no matter what, even if I offered to fix it X amount of times. 

[Anyponedrawn]

You just got to know when to stop and cut your losses and leave. 

[RainySunshine]

I also talked to them on very friendly terms for a long time, but they eventually turned for reasons unknown to me.  But oh well.  That's the past.  This is the present and now this is the future, and now, and now, and now.