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[yasl]

So... this is real random, but today I spent my most of my day with my friends. They're gonna be going to be leaving soon, around this summer, and it kinda hit me that like.... this was probably the last day of being able to see them. Like, yeah, I'll be able to see them again eventually, and talk with them online and through text messaging and such, but... it just hit me that like... friends will come and go like that.

And I feel like I can say I've made some nice friends here, and I'm just always nervous that one day it'll be over, or that I'm not going to come back because something happened to me or whatever the reason.

I don't really know where to put this, so I'm kinda just putting this here in the chat so yall can see it. It's not really a life update or anything, but it's just a sort of like... realization. And I personally just want to say how grateful I am to have known you guys. You are all very kind people and I'm real happy I got to know some of you a bit closer.

Yeah, I think this is one of the Realizations of Adulthood.  It's pretty weird, especially if you've been through school in about the same area, and so your core set of friends has been fairly stable over more than a decade.  And it's true that if you're not spending time with people at school or work, then you'll drift away from many.  I'm still in fairly regular contact with several of my university friends, but rarely have much to do with anyone from school.

It's a melancholic realization, related I suppose to mourning over a loss.  I don't really have anything poignant to say, or a real point to this reply, other than to acknowledge you and provide a little solidarity/empathy.

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[Death Blossom]

Aw... Miggs... That's so sad. You're right, it does happen, friends come and go, and it's a scary thought.
I hope your last day with your friend was enjoyable, hopefully you can spend another before he leaves, but if not, remember he's not disappearing. I know it's not the same when they're not physically there, trust me I know.

If someday it's over for us here... Know it wouldn't have been your fault. You're one of the sweetest guys I know. You just kinda roll with those punches. (You're also super generous, like m8, I'd say your like Rarity but I don't like her so I'm not XP). But wow... If something happened to you and we didn't know and you just disappeared... That is actually a pretty scary thought. One I don't think about but know is a possibility. I always just hope it never happens to any of my friends. It's really heartbreaking to think about. Internet friends are still friends.

I'm happy I got to meet you to Miggs. I honestly forget how we happened to meet, but I'm so happy that we did. You're a great guy, with a great civil war beard to match I think this is an appropriate situation to extend one of these... *hugs tightly*

[Darrin]

So... this is real random, but today I spent my most of my day with my friends. They're gonna be going to be leaving soon, around this summer, and it kinda hit me that like.... this was probably the last day of being able to see them. Like, yeah, I'll be able to see them again eventually, and talk with them online and through text messaging and such, but... it just hit me that like... friends will come and go like that.

And I feel like I can say I've made some nice friends here, and I'm just always nervous that one day it'll be over, or that I'm not going to come back because something happened to me or whatever the reason.

I don't really know where to put this, so I'm kinda just putting this here in the chat so yall can see it. It's not really a life update or anything, but it's just a sort of like... realization. And I personally just want to say how grateful I am to have known you guys. You are all very kind people and I'm real happy I got to know some of you a bit closer.

I can't sugar you up with nice promises changes won't happen but they do.  I've lost many of friends over people moving.  Had one move to Arizona, one to Atlanta, and another to Texas, all never to be seen again. :-/  You try to keep in contact, and sometimes it works great, other times, they fade away.

It really is unfortunate, but life is a mystery.  You just got to peddle on through. 

[Anyponedrawn]

Yeeaaaah.  Fact of life.  Friends and relationships are amazing things.  I've had them yanked, pulled, and lost in the brush.  I hate it when it happens.

My last was a break up with my girlfriend for two and a half years.  It hits you so hard, and then the realization stage comes... it has made me have no drive to draw... but I know it will pass. I'm sorry to hear they are heading out.  Try to talk to them as much as possible and see them more if you can.  You don't realize how blessed or how great you have it till they are gone. 

[Miggs]

Thank you all for your words of wisdom/support. I think coming to terms with things will definitely help with things. Thank you all.

[MasterXtreme]

Who will be the first to make the first post on the 100th page.

[MasterXtreme]

It shall be me.

[MasterXtreme]

Victory is near.  On the horizon.

[MasterXtreme]

I can sense it.

[MasterXtreme]

All 473 of my posts has lead to this exact moment.

[MasterXtreme]

The day I can hit the 100th page in posts for a topic.

[MasterXtreme]

I think this might be only the second thread on the whole forum to do so. 

[MasterXtreme]

It's so close.

[MasterXtreme]

I would like to thank everyone who helped make this possible.

[MasterXtreme]

I wanna thank my Dad and my Mom...