PSF Chat

[Darrin]

I hope it will be a happy Sunday, Silver.  I'm not sure.

If you have that kind of attitude, it won't be good.  Just be welcoming and your mood will lighten up. 

[Rainberry]

 

[1234]

Positiveness! That's how we think around here. Positiveness.

Also, on Wednesday, it'll be the first anniversary of the opening of this forum.

[RainySunshine]

Yeah!  1/13/16.  It will officially be one year of PSF 2.0.  How long have we been around before that, including PSF 1.0?  Anyone know for sure?

[1234]

January 13th was when it was created. That was 9 days ago.

PSF 1.0 lasted for about a year and a half.

[RainySunshine]

So it's been awhile.

Yeah, the site was up longer then when it was officially opened.  

[1234]

Yeah. After 12 days of hard work (not counting the days of hard work before), it was opened to everybody.

And how cool this forum turned out.

[1234]

Aw, guys, I'm not sure I should be bringing this up again, but I was thinking, and just realized something.

While in a somewhat aggressive manner, LP did bring up an interesting point.

The idea Raine had. It's not much different from other stuff that has been done around here. The "How Many Times" thread, for example.

What is it EXACTLY that we feel is wrong about that "live thread" idea? We said it would feel like a strip club, but what else do we feel is wrong about this idea? Because I don't think that question's been really answered, aside from "it feels wrong".

(Keep in mind that I am NOT posting this in order to stir up more animosity between members, but to solve the problem.)

[Death Blossom]

From what I observe, Raine counter acted every point APD brought up. Saying it's up to the poster, that she wouldn't mind what people did with the descriptions she'd write down. That she wouldn't mind the comments people would make.

Then all of a sudden, on a freaking dime, everyone went "this is a bad idea" "this IS bad" "we never should have thought of this" bad touch, bad touch! I read over it and was just so baffled. Like, it seemed the only one who didn't like it was APD, and if he didn't like it, just don't go on that thread. But suddenly VWOOSH! It was a bad idea? That's what confuses me while going over the pages of what led up to it.

[1234]

From my perspective.

After having a little fun with inducing, Raine had this idea pop up. She told us about it.

Most members liked it, save for a couple of 'em, who weren't too sure. APD tried to suggest ways that it couldn't get weird, but in the end, we began to see how it could turn bad. So in the end, we decided it was a bad idea.

I think this idea has its good and bad aspects. That's all I can say.

[Anyponedrawn]

My strip joint comment was never meant to be seen as so bad.  I was just saying on the surface, it felt like that.  But at the same time, we all agreed the other stuff was okay, like obs and what not.  People can do what they want.  I don't want to ruin people's fun and sense of community here.

I had no idea I was the source of this.  Sorry. 

[Wolfwood]

Oh..... I feel this is something I should stay out of.  Don't have a clue whats going on. 

But I will say this.  Don't break friendships over ideas and words.  We are better then that, right?  We've talked about so many worse things in the past, and we never spilt tea over it.  Just, be careful guys.  I love this place, I really do.  I selfishly don't want to see division. 

[Anyponedrawn]

The last thing I want to see is division, believe me.  I have spent a lot of my time doing things for this community because I love it.  I love you guys.  Why would I ever want to hurt any of you?  I wouldn't. 

[Death Blossom]

The thing is, I didn't seem to see others come to the conclusion it was bad naturally. It just kinda felt like they were agreeing with APD. Despite two people making strong rebuttes against his point. Again, it's up to the person who posts, and for them to acknowledge they're on a fetish forum so yes, people are going to jack off. Hell, people already jack off to the posts made in the HMTDYST thread.

It's fine if you didn't like the idea. But not make it seem like it was bad, bad from the start, bad to think it, and baaaaad! You made people feel like shit (their words, not mine, but I would use similar wordage).

[Darrin]

Nobody wants to see the community divided, and we are not.  We are having healthy conversation.  Don't worry.  If you want to make a difference, go send messages to people and talk with them.  Resolve things.  It makes a statement if you do it yourself.