PSF Chat

[Captain Ridiculous]

Football is my favorite sport to watch.   I really can not wait.  One game down. 

[Death Blossom]

So... Don't you hate when you have a pretty alright day. Then a group of people just ruin it.
Completely trash it. Those peeps suck.

[1234]

Yeah, I know that feeling. Ugh. >_<

What happened, though?
It's okay if you don't wanna say it.

[Death Blossom]

My roommates basically told me I was a problem. More like blowing things out of proportion and acting like I ask them for more than I actually do. And it just. One of them basically said she was mad at me because I "say snarky stuff, and you know me, you make me want to punch you in the face." And I'm like, excuse me? You've known me for a year. You should know I'm snarky. And I don't even snark at you, I make a small joke or something.

[1234]

Whoa, geez! That's rude.

[RainySunshine]

Sorry, LP.  Can we help in anyway?  You do have a Autumn Summer gift for you in the Adorkable topic.  Maybe that will help a bit.

[Rainberry]

I'm sorry your friend ruined your day by being stupid.  They've known you a year, and should know you by now... maybe they forgot over the summer....

[Death Blossom]

She's basically mad cuz I triggered her.
The other one is mad because I "ask for my laptop and books everyday." I didn't realize asking to borrow it one time now means I asked for it everyday? And I asked to borrow your book twice, the second time you never even gave it to me. I only asked cuz my books hadn't come in.

So they were basically both just taking turns railing on me. I was mad, but I don't know, I just eventually started crying and just went to the bathroom. Then my friend took me to McDonalds. That was cool.

But yeah, I saw the Autumn Summer. That was awesome. That was gute.

[1234]

They made you cry? Aw, dammit. You didn't deserve that. Glad your friend tried to make you feel a bit better (if that's the case).

[Death Blossom]

Yeah. It kinda sucked.

And yeah, my friend did it to make me feel better.

[Silverwing]

Awwww!  I'm so sorry, LP.    Sometimes days are cruddy.... I'm just picturing you all sad and tearing up, but being tough and trying not to at the same time... My heart melted.

Props to your pal you took you out for comfort food. 

[Smiles2us]

*Wraps LP up in a big hug.* 

[NostradamusTheSeer]

My roommates basically told me I was a problem.... One of them basically said she was mad at me because I "say snarky stuff, and you know me, you make me want to punch you in the face." And I'm like, excuse me? You've known me for a year. You should know I'm snarky.

At least they told you now so you can presumably correct your (perceived) bad behavior and make amends (or, hey, cut them loose, whatever, friends like that you don't need).  What's worse is learning years late, like at a reunion or something, that your old school chums actually resented and hated you all along, and you were never as successful or popular as you believed.   It's like, wait, my memories. Was my whole life a lie?

[Soda]

There is two ways to look at it.  Sorry they were butts to you, but also what Nostra said.  I didn't think of that.

[Death Blossom]

That's kinda close, I guess, Silver heh. I am a cry baby actually. When I was a kid I'd cry when someone even called me that, thus proving their point haha. As I went through middle school I had to learn to toughen up and not cry even if someone really hurt me. And I can tend to hold back tears, but this "session" just hit me hard. Especially when my friend just kept critiquing me for my personality. I wouldn't mind as much if I hadn't thought we were good friends. Which I thought we had become after I helped her out of a terrible situation and helped her get justice and all that. But no. I guess it didn't matter to her.

Well, the thing is Nostra, she could also try being less of a bitch. I actually gauge my behavior based on who I'm hanging out with. If I'm hanging out with really loud, super overbearing bombastic people, I'm more cool and submissive and go along with them. When I'm with people who know how to take a fricking joke I don't hold back. I know she's a bitch, so I tread lightly. But the joke she was most likely referring to was when she was convinced our room was haunted and said she should get a bible and I said, "What if the ghost is Christian? You should get Q'uran just in case it's a Muslim ghost. Get all your bases covered." And here's the thing, she wasn't offended that I made a Muslim/Christian joke (she's not even religious), she was offended and mad because I made a joke. And apparently I'm not allowed to make a joke, because it makes her maaaayd.

The reason I vary myself from person to person is because I know some people wouldn't be able to handle who I really am. So I just subdue myself. And if I had to choose, I most likely wouldn't hang out with them often. Preferring to chose those who allow me to be fun and snarky and biting.

I'm sorry for rambling, I really shouldn't bother you all with my problems. Sorry for talking so much.